Love vs Arranged Marriage
Disclaimer
The
statements expressed in this article are completely my funny views(Of course
there are some facts). It doesn't meant to hurt others. Any resemblances to
real persons living or dead is purely coincidental.
Marriages are one of the
bombastic and extravagant events that happens in India. There are lots of
debates ,questions and confusions arises to most of the them to know which one leads over other in terms of
Love vs Arranged. Some say Arranged marriage is fruitful compared to Love marriage
and some vote for Love marriages. So guys
which one is better? Lets get into the
details...
little about Love marriages...
There is a saying that 'A known devil is better than
Unknown Ghost'
That is what love marriage
is. Love kind can be of any type. A
mother loves her children. This is called as Mother-Child affection. Devoting
your helping hands to the poor. It's called as love in terms of humanity. But
when it comes to the love between a boy and girl in terms of a pre marriage,
most of our elders will encounter us with plethora of
questions..Is she or he from our same caste? Does he or she know the traditions etc.
In love marriages dowry
system can be eliminated. Its bride and groom who
gains PHD in terms of knowing each other before marriage itself..:). The
post quarrels will happen before marriage..:) :). Through this we can eliminate
the caste system. We know that in India caste is a disease still flowing in our blood. At least people are killing this caste disease through
this way..:).
About Arranged Marriages
Arranged Marriage is the
process which connects with trust and understanding. This process goes like interview where the
bride or groom has to create a profile which
connects to the way we prepare our resume
for job. There will be requirements from each other like job requirements. Check
out the following funny video specific to arranged marriage...:)
Its linked with lot of arrangements.
Initially it will starts with matrimonial profiles, matchmakers. If the
horoscope matches then that is the case when both family gets connected for lookups.
Dowry plays a vital role here. Two complete strangers are getting married in
this system. :). Though the bride side members are pleasing the groom side
demands based on the dowry, still we are hearing lot of dowry case harassment's almost
every day. Thanks to some people who are
realizing that humans are important than money.
Love vs Arranged in a nut shell..
When it comes to Love or
Arranged in both instances there are pros and cons. It all depends upon how we
understand and compromise. Whether its Love or arranged in either of the cases
both boys and girls will be in hot
waters. The funny quarrels continues.
The crack brained ego makes them to quarrel more and more. We will miss our happy bachelors
life.The following is a funny
example which proclaims the ego system act in both men and women..:) :)
A woman, without her man, is
nothing.
A woman: without her, man is nothing.
A woman: without her, man is nothing.
So what about you guys..? Which one you say Go go for..Pyaar ka Punchnama or Life Partner typo bride or groom...lol?
P.S - This post is written for the blogger contest organized by IndiBlogger and sponsored by Sony
Entertainment television as part of
their soap Love Marriage Ya Arranged Marriage. Click here for
the soap trailer.
Picture credit @ DishTracking.com
Video Source : Main duck @Sahi Rishta
Matrimony from Youtube
I think its not about love marriage or arrange marriage its about how well you understand your partner and behave accordingly. Love or arrange what important is commitment.
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